In an effort to be more positive, you have to change the way you plan.
When writing down your plans, state everything in the positive: I will make more money, I will have ____ number of sales every month, I will create a new collection.
The sames goes for how you think about yourself and your goals: I am confident, smart, and an effective leader. I will feed my ideas with inspiration that will support my passion.
To effectively make this new positive way of thinking a part of your everyday work life you need to be willing to work hard, and review your goals often.
It's time to stop creating a wish list and create plan you can feel good about!
Are your goals/plans for 2013 stated in the positive?